Why am I so interested in bodies?
I research the sociology of the body because bodies are immensely complex and deeply fascinating phenomena. Our body anchors us in time and space, it is the only vehicle through which we can track the...
View ArticleOn the body and shame
I don’t remember exactly how old I was. I was transitioning from childhood to adolescence. I started growing hair on my armpits. I was probably in fifth grade because I remember a friend showing me her...
View ArticleMeasuring up to myself and not others
As a child, I was very afraid of falling, or of losing balance. I remember my mother telling me once that I tumble like a rock. One time I fell on my face and broke both of my front teeth. My entire...
View ArticleMy body and death
When I touch my body with my own hands, I live and express the duality of the subject and object- I touch and I’m being touched, I’m touched because I touch, and vice versa. When I touch my body with...
View ArticleIntimacy at arm’s length
“The arm’s length principle (ALP) is the condition or the fact that the parties to a transaction are independent and on an equal footing”- Wikipedia I used to think that intimacy meant reducing the...
View ArticleChange
One of the reasons I enjoy practicing martial arts so much is that it changes me. I often feel that while intellectual learning may grant me more knowledge, it doesn’t have the power to change me. I...
View ArticleOn the irreversibility of pain
Merleau-Ponty wrote about the inherent reversibility of the hand shake: both hands, both bodies touch each other and are being touched at the same time. The movement is reversible; the bond that’s...
View ArticleIntegrating death into life
I have one little problem with my body. It reminds me that I am going to die. I have no problem accepting the fact that I was born in a particular year- 1984- and that I hadn’t existed before. I do,...
View ArticleLive and still matter
To sustain a fall, a primitive instinct sets in, causing the body to send both hands forward. I vividly remember what happens when the instinct doesn’t set in- as a child I fell right on my front...
View ArticleThe spectetor and the man in the control room
I was sitting in class, listening to a student’s presentation. Suddenly, there was a very loud sound. Immediately my head turned, with full force, to the direction from which the sound came. I felt as...
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